Don’t blame people for disappointing you. Blame yourself for expecting too much from them. – Anonymous
Do not blame anyone for disappointing you since it is your mistake to have so many expectations from them.
It is important to understand that in this world full of hypocrites, you can never expect someone to be true to you. Hence, you must always be ready to combat all the situations that come along your way.
Too often, we feel broken deep inside our heart only because we tend to set some expectations in our lives, and then we feel shattered when they are not met.
You need to understand how the reality works, and know that there’s no point in blaming others. It is quite obvious that people aren’t going to meet your own expectations and you should have been prepared about it beforehand.
In such a situation, instead of blaming others, you should be blaming yourself for you have set such high expectations from people who are not worth it.
You cannot make such people understand what you feel and it is absolutely useless in making an attempt to make them understand how things work.
Know that there are several people around the world who do not work by ethics and you cannot teach them morality in just a single day.
Therefore, the best way to deal with them is by hook and crook. You cannot trust them anyway for in case you ever believe in them, you should be ready to receive a betrayal from them.
If ever you set such expectations and they are not met, learn to accept it, and instead of blaming them or your fate, blame yourself for it was none other than your mistake for you have done it wrong in believing such hypocrites all over again.
It was all your mistake to have identified them as wise enough. They weren’t just worth it!