You don’t choose your family. They are God’s gift to you, as you are to them. – Desmond Tutu
We are born to a family and we do not have the option to choose whom we are born to!
We do not have the provision to choose our parents or our siblings for that is decided by none other than God himself. We cannot choose anyone, and only God is actually eligible to decide who our parents would be!
You need to understand that the family you are born into is a gift to you straight away from God and thus, you should feel yourself blessed to have such an amazing treasure.
We should not blame things or go on nagging around those same things again and again. Instead, we must treat god’s gift to us with equal respect.
We should never feel low about something that we have received from the almighty. We should have at least the minimum decency to make sure that we are thankful for the family we have got.
Too often, it becomes too late then we have realized, but make sure that you are grateful for all that you have already got in hand, for that shall make you eventually better in the due course of time.
All of us are god’s children, and he is certainly the one who treats us with love. In that context, we should at least be polite and humble in our approach and be thankful to God for everything that he has given us.
Instead of trying to find out the faults, and going on with the complaints, we should rather focus upon doing the best out of all that we have!