Two mental actions can change your life: Forgive Yourself. Move On. – Steven Aitchison
Two mental actions can change your life, out of which the first one is to forgive yourself, and the second one is to move on. It is important to realize that you will probably end up committing a lot of mistakes in your lives, but remember that you should never cling onto them all your life.
Too often, we go on getting into our past so deeply that we continue digging it each and every day.
You need to understand that each and every person has got a past, while some people are lucky enough to have good memories, there are several others who are not that lucky and they have no other option but to feel sad, stressed and worried about having a bitter past.
Now, it is only you who is going to decide that the past is not in your hands, and thus, you have got no other choice but to deal with it anyway.
You should always forgive yourself for all the wrong things that you have done till now and instead of regretting about them, you must be the kind of person who focuses on the lessons that you have learnt from them.
When you forgive yourself, no matter the intensity of the mistakes that you have committed and irrespective of the wrongs that you have done so far, you will be able to have a cool mind and a much peaceful soul to concentrate on the works in hand.
You need to focus upon the tasks that you have with you, and what else can be better than you trying to explore your own self all over again?
At the same time, you should always be able to move on. I know it is often easier said than done, and too often, we start feeling as if our past is not leaving our back in any way.
However, no matter how hard it gets, you will still have to get rid of your past some way or the other. Give yourself some time to heal, and you will be able to start afresh!
Once you have forgiven yourself and you have decided to let things go, now it is your high time when you should think about moving on. You ought to realize that moving on is the only option you have, and the sooner you adapt yourself to it, the better it is for you.
You must understand that when you think of moving on, that’s when you get to accept the facts and have already prepared your mind for the upcoming circumstances. This is the first process of your healing.
Consequently, you will have to understand that life happens, but you should never get stagnant at any point. Focus upon moving on, and you will find that life is much more beautiful ahead, and you have got a lot to see!