Stop worrying about pleasing others so much, do more of what makes you happy. – Unknown
You are not held responsible for pleasing others. You have a lot more to do apart from that. You are not born to please someone. If you ever think that pleasing someone gets into your reason for well being, you should never take it into your account.
You do not need to please everyone all the time, and much beyond that, you have a lot of other things to do. Many a time, we try to keep everyone’s heart and end up being depleted ourselves, it is essential to realize that you cannot always afford to do it.
Definitely, it is amazing to be the kind of person who is generous and accommodating, but at the same time, you need to realize the fact that you cannot always make everyone happy. Pleasing everyone should not get into your way of being happy.
It is certainly an amazing idea to do what makes people around you happy but at the same time, you must understand that being ‘too nice’ will cost you even more. In this world full of selfish people, do not be too gentle. You must abide by the old adage that “it is the survival of the fittest”.
I know, you have a good heart but at the same time, you should understand that it’s not always worth it. Having a good heart in today’s era will cost you even more. It is good that you care about others and take care of their wishes. You do not want to hurt anyone who is around you.
However, you should not lose yourself in the process. You must not neglect your own wants and needs while thinking of others. Think about your own happiness. You have only this one life, why keep on compromising for the sake of others?
We often run after meeting others’ expectations for the fact that we cannot afford rejections. It won’t be possible for us to meet the wishes of all the people around us. At times, you would require to ditch your ways of pleasing others and be authentic to your own self.
It’s okay if you don’t match some other people’s emotions and feelings, at times. Don’t feel about that! Who cares when you are down? No one, right? Live your life the way you want and give yourself enough reasons to be happy!