It is good to set boundaries for yourself, but at the same time, you should take care of the fact that your boundaries aren’t setting the right people away from you.
There are certain times in life when we are compelled to bear a lot of nuisance in our lives, and that’s when we feel so ignored and sad, that we end up doing nothing at the end. We try to build a shield around ourselves so that we can protect ourselves.
However, that’s not how things are to be done. It is essential to understand that not every person is the same, and a situation cannot decide the rest of your life.
It is good to protect yourself, but at the same time, you must know that you aren’t being overprotective about yourself.
Therefore, you must take care of the fact that your boundaries aren’t scaring the right people away.
At the end of the day, no matter how bad your past has been, you must have the wisdom to differentiate between the kind of people who are present around you so that you can discriminate against the ones who are ‘good’ and the ones who aren’t!
You must have limitations and boundaries set for people around you, but that doesn’t mean that you will block the entry of the right people as well.
You must always allow the right people in, and refrain yourself from the ones who do not seem to have good thoughts about you.
You must take care of the fact that you should discriminate against different varieties of people properly and thus, allow the good ones into your life.
It is important to talk with people, and behave naturally with everyone around you. A bad experience cannot decide the rest of your life, isn’t it?
Be smart enough to judge people, and live a normal life, just like the way everyone else around you does!