Stop letting people who do so little for you control so much of your mind, feelings and emotions. – Will Smith
There are times when others seem to control your mind, heart, and emotions. Do not let that happen by any chance.
At times, we get carried away according to the situations around us that we start feeling demotivated ourselves. It makes us feel as if we are good for nothing.
It is important to understand that we should never allow others to control our mind. It is none other than us who have the authority to think about our own selves, and nobody is going to decide it.
At the same time, you need to understand the fact that we are the only one to control our own feelings. It is none other than us who are going to decide things and we should never allow someone else to do that for us!
Stop allowing others to intervene in your life. You would probably find a lot of people who would just come along, and get into your life for nothing. They will come and talk to you about several things around you, and then you start counting them as your friends and dearest ones.
Know that not all the people whom you consider to be true to you are actually going to be there for you in the real terms of life. We often count them as innocent but as you go along with life, you will come to know that they have been the most fake people you could have ever met.
We do not have the potential to realize that it is none other than us who should be able to understand who we actually are!
Too often, we become so dependent on others as if it starts appearing that we have no other way but to rely on them. It is important to understand that no one is actually going to take us as their priority, and thus, we alone are responsible for ourselves.
Consequently, we should never let someone else have the authority to evaluate us. A lot of people may criticize us, but that doesn’t mean that we will count their words, so much so, that we start getting affected by it. Know that the world is full of hypocrites, and people are going to mock you.
However, you should have just one principle of your own life, and that should be the ability to take up challenges. Let others say what they want, about you!
Be fair enough in your point and make sure that it is none other than you who is going to take care of your emotions, your feelings, and the rest of the things.
They are absolutely your personal perspectives and no one can ever have the potency to comment on it. Even if they do, make sure that you are not paying any attention to the same.