Be thankful for closed doors, detours, and roadblocks. They protect you from paths and places not meant for you. – Anonymous
At times, you might start feeling low, only because you have had high expectations for certain things. This is nothing unusual and it happens with almost each one of us.
There are moments and situations when we expect a lot from the coming days, but somehow things don’t turn out to be as we expect them to do!
This is when we start blaming ourselves all over again. We do not give enough value to us and the people who actually love and care for us. That’s when we start feeling annoyed and irritated all the time.
However, it is important to understand that we should not always consider a closed door or a roadblock in a negative way. It might even be a positive consideration, and has some significance behind it until and unless we are actually able to discover the reason correctly.
Yes, you got that right! There are certain times when a roadblock might not be a roadblock in the true sense of words.
Not all obstacles are meant to create trouble for us, but they could rather be god’s ways of denying us for certain things. He might be indicating us about certain paths and places that might not be meant for us.
It may happen that we aren’t able to realize the actual reasons, but that’s how God indicates us to get back from a path, telling us that maybe we deserve much better than that!
Hence, you should never treat all the obstacles and barriers of life in a negative way. Rather, you should be able to understand that the reality might lie elsewhere, and it may occur that we aren’t able to realize it.
Instead of stressing yourself for those closed doors, detours, and roadblocks or blaming yourself or someone else for all of it, you should take it in a sporting way and try to understand that all that happened only because you deserved better.
It’s just that you weren’t able to realize it, and that’s the sole reason for which things did not turn out in your favor.
Something bigger than your expectations were already lining up at that time, and thus, those signals were just resemblance of God’s ways of saying that you have big things waiting ahead.