Never regret being a good person to the wrong people. Yes, you need to understand that kindness speaks a lot about a person. You need to understand that you should be good but not to everyone.
You must have the wisdom to differentiate between the good people with decent thoughts, and the ones who are having a negative intention for you. If you behave good with all, you will be the ‘loser’ at the end of the day.
The world today follows the rule of ‘tit for tat’ and you need to understand that kindness says a lot about your own self. There’s no point in being good to the people who aren’t bothered about you.
On the other hand, that doesn’t stop you from being kind either. You should behave politely and be kind to everyone around you, but at the same time, you must know your limits too!
You should know where to stop! You must not be over-gentle and end up losing everything by giving out to the other person.
Consequently, you should not be the person who is rude to everyone around just because you had a bad experience earlier. You must be kind, and humble to people around you since your behavior talks a lot about the way you are, as a person.
Also, it reflects the way you have been raised. Hence, you should be a humorous individual with decency and politeness being reflected in the way you reach out to others!
Be the person so that you could be counted as an ideal person, and you will have a good life ahead!