The less you respond to rude, critical, argumentative people… the more peaceful your life will become. – Mandy Hale
It is up to you how you choose to live. A lot of us keep complaining about the kind of people who live around us. Well, the question is not about the kind of people living in your surroundings, but it is rather about the way you choose to live with them.
It is important to understand that this world is composed of a myriad of people. You will have plenty of people around you, and not everyone would be like the way you want them to be!
Just as all the fingers in your hand aren’t similar, the same goes for the people around you as well. You must have the potential to realize things of your own and then refrain from behaving with them accordingly.
Not all the people are similar, and you heard it right. While some people would be absolutely decent and polite, and then you will find a new set of people who would be rude and argumentative with you for just no reason.
It is not about the way they choose to behave with you, but that’s how their personality has been chalked. There are several critical people who don’t have the ability to think about things straight.
They are the ones that twist and turn every simple thing without any prior thought. They are the ones who think in a critical aspect, and thus, you, being present in such an environment, might have to suffer.
Well, if you choose to retain your inner safe, learn to ignore. Yes, it is rightly said that you cannot make everyone happy. It is neither in your hands to change them altogether, nor will your response stir their inner conscience.
Therefore, the best thing you can ever do is to stay away from them. It is essential to understand that if you truly want to become peaceful, you should be the kind of person who stays away from all such complex things.
You might have such a bad-ass boss or someone from your relatives, and you don’t have the option to stay away from them. At some of the other times, you might need to confront them.
In such a scenario, the best thing you can ever do is to ignore them.
The least you expect from them, the lesser will you be hurt. Hence, it is essential to safeguard yourself from such people, to make sure that you are able to stay happy and peaceful.