If you can’t love yourself, how in the hell you gonna love somebody else? – RuPaul
If you cannot love yourself, how will you be able to love someone else? Yes, it is rightly said that if you actually want to love someone other than yourself, you at first need to start loving yourself and accepting all your faults.
When you claim that the other person is someone whom you love, did you ever check if you actually love yourself the way you need? It is often easier said than done.
If you cannot love yourself, you cannot expect others to love you. This is because in order to live with others, you will need to accept that person fully. You can only be able to accept that person when you have learnt to accept yourself at the very first place.
It is often easy to say that you love the other person but when you say it, what matters the most is whether or not you are actually meaning it.
It is essential to understand that if you cannot love yourself, you will never be able to accept anyone else other than your own self. It is said that you are your own property, and you need to realize that you should be able to love yourself.
You might have a lot of scars in you, and you might not be an expert in each and everything. However, you ought to realize that you are amazing just the way they are, and that is all that matters!
Even if you have faults, that’s absolutely fine. You must know that even the moon has marks, isn’t it?
No matter how many mistakes you have made so far, all that is going to matter at the end of the day is the fact that whether or not you have learnt something from those wrongs, and what are you actually doing to make yourself a better version of what you were earlier?
Never underestimate yourself and know that if you keep trying, you are bound to achieve success and there is no doubt about it.
All that you should bother about is to ensure that you are giving your best at each and every shot, and the rest is going to fall into the place all by itself.
The day you are able to accept yourself and love yourself without any excuses or having any sort of inferiority complex in your mind or soul, you may expect to love someone as well.
It might sound a bit crazy for you today, but that’s how our psychology is designed like!