How you love yourself is how you teach others to love you. – Rupi Kaur

How you love yourself is how you teach others to love you. - Rupi Kaur

Everyone should love themselves first and please love our own selves before others. Actually, this is not an act of selfishness but it is actually a necessity in today’s world. There is a famous saying which says that God helps those who help themselves.

We must love ourselves first and value ourselves. This will not only set a benchmark for us but also for others. The act of kindness that we show to ourselves will eventually percolate down to others.

A person should acknowledge his or her mistakes and try to understand that nobody is perfect in this world. There is no such thing called perfection in human relationships. A perfect person would be just impossible to love. We fall for the flaws in others much more than their skill.

Perfection is just an illusion. At first, we need to understand how our mind works. This is necessary to understand as human relationships and emotions are all heavily surrounded around the subconscious faculty of our brain.

We should set our own benchmarks of how people should accept us. We are not a Slave to anyone’s desires, but we are the master of our own will. Our worth should be based on our own talents and not others’ assumption of us.

This is also important to figure out that we should value our own skills and believe that we are capable of achieving what we dream and working or creating wonders. We all are the supreme creation of the Almighty, and we must never differentiate ourselves.

Society should know us as people who have achieved a state of peace with the body and the soul. We must keep in mind that we need to look after ourselves first and live our own life before teaching society how it should treat us.