When my absence doesn’t alter your life, then my presence has no meaning in it. – Unknown
When my absence doesn’t alter your life, make sure that you will have no impact even in my presence. At times, you tend to lose your significance just because you become more available than you ever needed to!
It is important to understand that if you see that your absence has got no effect in someone’s life, be rest assured that your presence would not cause any effect either!
There are situations when you need to decide whether or not your presence or absence is noted by someone. It is never necessary that someone whom you treat to be yours, that person will think just the same for you as well.
It is essential to understand that we often end up trusting others, and take them too seriously in our lives.
However, it is important to realize that everyone should not give back the same amount of respect to us, and expecting it is definitely a thought in vain.
You need to be wise enough to make out whether your absence is causing an impact in their lives, and if it does, then that’s definitely a good pointer.
However, in case you see that your absence isn’t bothering them anyway, that’s when you need to stop expecting so much from that particular person, and thus, understand that your presence has got absolutely no meaning in their lives.
This is when you should think of your self-esteem, and thus, prefer to walk away.