Seek respect, not attention. It lasts longer. – Ziad K. Abdelnour
It is important to understand that one cannot achieve heights in life only by attraction attributes or by seeking attention from others. A person should always be driven by a strong sense of good human values and solid character.
It is important to seek respect from people by doing good for humanity and society. It is important to develop good human values and the right behavior. It is our sole responsibility to be kind to others and also politely interact with them. We should accept the reward which we truly deserve and nothing more than that.
Why should we focus on helping people in times of distress and trouble? As human beings, it is our duty to stand beside our fellow friends and help them as much as we can. It is a common observation that people who are honest and good are always respected in society and given value.
A person is respected not because of his or her looks or wealth, and it is solely because of their noble qualities and human-like attributes. Good human beings behave politely with others and never seek attention from the rest of the world.
They believe that kindness and generosity is not a choice; it is actually our way of life. Respect often lasts longer then attraction because, in the long run, people never judge a book by its cover. Good manners should actually be practiced from a very young age.
Little human qualities like helping the needy, feeding the poor, financial donations to NGOs, and social welfare organizations will not only give us peace and comfort but also instill within us human emotions and proper values.
It is important to build your own character and develop yourself into a socially sound and positive human being. This will not only give you respect but also providing with joy and happiness. We should understand the fact that actual happiness and enthusiasm is hidden in the little acts of humanity.
The old proverb says that charity begins at home; therefore, a beginner can start from his own home and slowly try to spread the message of humanity to mankind. Try to earn your own respect from others by virtue of your actions.