At times, we tend to fear the change, but it is extremely important to understand that there could be no greater constant in this world than change itself. Remember that you have walked so far only because you haven’t been restricting changes.
You were born as a little child. However, slowly and gradually, you kept changing over the years, and finally, you changed your friends, schools, teachers, and then the universities. All of them have been a part of your life, but things were never the same.
In a similar way, you ought to understand the fact that there’s no greater truth in life than ‘change.’ It is the biggest truth of this universe. You cannot do anything but to accept this truth. If you are happy today, take time and live the moment to the fullest, for you never know what will happen the very next moment.
Also, if you are unhappy and distressed today, do not consider it to be the end of your life, for this moment would also change soon. Nothing stays the same. No matter what it is, it would never stay the same. Therefore, the ideal decision is to make sure that you embrace things just by the way they come.
It is essential to acknowledge that we don’t have anything in our hands. All we can do is to abide by the rules and regulations of the universe. If you have got kids at home, you cannot expect them to stay with you just like this, all throughout your lives. Isn’t it? You must understand that they would also leave you and go in some days, or probably within a span of just a couple of years.
The moment you feel that the ones for whom you have devoted all your life will not be with you someday, just remind yourself of those late nights when you helped your kid with his homework, just to see him learn through the years, find a good job and succeed in life. That’s what he has been doing!
Now, why should you not leave him to go away from you and get a life that you have always urged to witness for your child? The same has been with your parents too! It’s only the change that kept us going. Therefore, the ideal decision is to accept the change and try finding happiness within it.