Forgiveness does not mean what happened is okay. It means not letting what happened take any more of your happiness. – Michelle Maros
Forgiveness does not depict that all that happened is okay. It simply means that you are forgiving that situation only to make sure that you are letting things go! It is essential to make sure that you are not taking any more of your happiness.
You should not allow anyone to take away your happiness. It is required to understand that you should focus on forgiving people and trying to forget certain incidents in your life if at all that is hindering your mental peace and happiness.
You should do things that make you happy. If you are concentrating only on a certain situation or an incident, and you would see that particular situation is eating away all your happiness, it isn’t okay! You should never allow that to happen with you.
Instead, you should focus on doing things that would do good for you. Just let the things go and let the past go. That situation has already been over, and it’s already done! Do not make that happen with you. Hence, forgiveness will always reward with you inner peace and stability.
You should always try to accept the reality. You must know that life will bring you a lot of unfavorable situations. Once a situation is over, you do not have any control over it anymore. In such a context, you must have the sense to accept things as they are, and let things go!
When you do not have your hand in controlling the situation, just let it go! Leave that situation and accept it even if it has not turned in your favor, and try to move ahead in your life.
Remember that you are forgiving the other person only because you do not want to keep on holding it anymore. You want to live in peace, and clinging onto it won’t do any good to you.
You must know that life will always give you situations, and not all of them would be in your favor, nor every situation will turn to be positive for you. It is the only life that will show you with good turns and twists.