Forgiveness does not change the past, but it does enlarge the future. – Paul Boese
There are times when we need to forgive certain things and people around us in order to save our relationships and make sure that we are able to start afresh. Mistakes are done, no matter if they are too big to be forgiven or not but clinging on to them would definitely not find a solution to you.
Therefore, you must understand that forgiving is always a better choice than holding on your grudges against that person. When you forgive a person, you avail a feeling of positivity within you which helps you stay more focused at your work.
Thus, forgiveness does not change your past. All it can do is to give you a lot more enthusiasm and help you move ahead in your life. When things have already been out of your reach and you know that nothing can alter the past, the best way to let them go away is by forgiving others.
Instead of holding onto things, you should better stay focused on changing the future as you already know that the past is not under your control.
When you let things go off, you have more positivity in yourself so much, so that you don’t mind moving ahead in your life. This is certainly an essential aspect of your life and it enhances your scope of leading yourself in the future.
Holding onto your grudges won’t help you reach the destination; all it would ever do is to pull you back. However, when you forgive, you gain a different spirit to start things afresh.