If people don’t make an effort to be in your life, don’t try so hard to be in theirs. It’s not worth it. – Unknown
If you see that people around you are not putting any sort of effort to stay in your life, make sure that you do not put any effort either!
At times, we make ourselves extremely close to people whom we love and adore, and we keep on giving our best to keep them in our lives.
However, it is important to understand that life is all about meetings and partings, and you cannot compel someone to stay in your life. It is all up to them whether or not they want to be a part of your life.
If at all, they would share the similar kinds of emotions as you do, they will give their best to be a part of your life, and you will have to do absolutely nothing in that regard.
Make sure that you think of focusing upon your own good, and your own happiness instead of trying to keep others in your life.
There are some people who may not stay in your life, no matter how hard you try to keep them. Learn to accept the reality as it comes, and try to make yourself understand that you cannot keep them in your life forever.
If they want to stay, they will all by themselves and you will not have to make any request before them. In case they want to leave your path and go, let them. Make yourself realize the truth and learn to know that they were never meant to stay.
It might be tough for you to realize things, but that’s important. You cannot expect others to think about you, but at least, you can think about your own self.
Whatsoever, it is essential to understand that it is not worth it to stay in someone’s life either when that person is not eager to keep you in his or her life.
Do not try to get into the personal space of someone’s life for just no reason. If you think that you are not able to make out the situation, learn to watch their actions and you shall be able to get it all.
If you are able to notice their actions carefully, you will be able to know that there are some people who do not simply want to keep you in their lives. The moment you come to know about it, make sure that you are not putting any effort to get into their life.
Know that none of your efforts will actually matter at the end of the day, and all your efforts are going to go in vain. So, it is absolutely useless to even attempt such worthless tasks.