Every pain gives a lesson and instead of clinging on to that particular pain, make sure that you are able to see out of it.
At times, we blocked our mind so much that we are not ready to accept anything beyond the thought process and that is definitely the worst thing that one can ever do to oneself.
You need to understand that even if you have failed once in your life that doesn’t mean that you are not worth anything. You have come this far and that itself is a big achievement for yourself.
You might have failed miserably and have been hurt a lot, but that doesn’t mean that you are anyway weaker than everyone else.
Every pain gives you a lesson and all you need is to make sure that instead of thinking about the ache, you should start changing your perspective this time and think of the lessons that you have got from that failure so that you do not repeat the same mistakes again.
We often see great men reaching heights, but did we ever take out a bit of time from our regular schedule to think about all that they have done and the number of times they have failed before they could actually prove themselves to be successful.
Know that you learn much more in case of a failure then all you could learn while you become successful.
Most importantly, you must have the ability to understand that if you succeed at just the very first attempt; people might consider that you have done it just by luck.
However, if you have tried a thousand times and have failed miserably in all those attempts, you will be able to tell yourself and others as well as inspire them with the lessons that you have learnt through this process.
You will be aware of all the methods that didn’t work out for you, and you can suggest to others the probable mistakes that people usually make! This way, you become quite sure about the 1001st attempt which did finally work out in your favor.
Know that people do not remain the same right from childhood till their adulthood. They keep on growing every single day and take lessons from all the real life experiences. This is probably the major reason for which it is said that you can never get a greater teacher than life itself.
Try to count each and every small learning, and make sure that you are incorporating them into your daily life. You will keep growing, for sure!