Your life is how you want it to be. Only you get to make all the decisions. Choose which path you want to take. It doesn’t matter where you come from, what society thinks, or what everyone else around you does.
If you wish to be someone then all you must do is keep fighting every obstacle in your path. Even if people around you fail to understand, one day or the other they will see what you were actually after.
The pages of your life are blank, and you can fill it any which way you desire. True, certain instances can change the course of events. They can throw you off your game, but you still have the ability to climb your way back up.