A wise man once asked that what is anger and the answer came as angre is nothing but just punishment that we give to ourselves for the mistake that someone else has done. Yes, at times, we get too hyper that we lose control over our own selves.
We tend to take a decision at the hit of the moment, and later on, we keep on rendering about the same.
Also, we tend to talk bullshit when we are angry, and too often, we end up hurting the other people around us as well.
This is something that is not to be done. You should have control upon all that you do and say to others. This is because you might end up doing something at that point of time, but you will have to bear its consequences for the rest of your life.
Hence, no matter how messy the situations seem to be, you must always be the kind of person who takes up decisions with the proper presence of mind.
Never allow yourself or anyone else to pay for just a moment. You should have the wisdom to calm yourself, or refrain yourself from anger.
Only if you control yourself at that moment, you will have a lot to thank for, later on.
I know it might be easier said than done, but a wise person will always try to cool his mind before taking up any decision instantly.
You are certainly wrong nowhere, and that is quite obvious to get annoyed and angry at that point of time, but know that it is nothing but just a punishment that you give to yourself for the mistake that you didn’t even do.
You must always have an intention to calm yourself at first, no matter how terrible the situations seem to be! It is never a wise choice to give yourself the punishment for the mistakes that you haven’t even done.
I know it’s hard to control yourself at that specific time, but only if you are capable of doing so, that you become a gainer at the end of the day.
People often take their whole lifetime to learn this, but if you are wise enough to get it, you are sure to go a long way down the line.