It is very rare or almost impossible that an event can be negative from all points of view. – Dalai Lama
There cannot be negativity in something all the time. Yeah, it is quite similar to the old adage as it goes – “Even the stopped clock shows the right time twice a day“. In the same way, it is essential to realize that an event can definitely have a negative perspective but at the same time, it cannot be filled with nothing other than just negativity.
You must learn to accept the fact that it is only your point of view that matters. People often blame an event but fail to notice that although everything seems to be negative in something, still it is important to witness some sort of positivity in it. Not everyone can see the other side of the dice. Perception and perspective matters!
It all depends on the way you look at things. There could hardly be anything in this world that contains nothing other than just negativities. Not all of us can be optimistic enough to forget about the negativities and think only of the good sides. Not everyone, right? In the same way, you should realize that we should not let our negative energies drain out our thoughts.
Negativity is a demon and that’s true. It can distract you from your own focus and you will roam around aimlessly. It will drag you to the moments of dissatisfaction and that will gain you nothing other than just hours of depression. Not everyone can accept this truth but you must consequently realize that it is only ‘us’ who can cure ourselves from such issues.
Understand the fact that negativity cannot build anything, it is the force that’s just meant to ruin everything around. It prevents you from experiencing your life on a good note. If you are still conscious about something or an event, it is time that you should change your perception and try to look at things with a whole new ideology.