What is Love? Love is the absence of judgement. – Dalai Lama XIV
Love is nothing but an absence of judgment. When you love someone, you do not see any fault in that person. It is quite easy to say that you love a person, but on the other side, you keep on judging that person for all that he or she does.
Remember the truth that when you love a person, he or she isn’t any separate to you. It is just like a single soul but in two different bodies.
It is important to understand that when you love the other person, you can try making attempts to rectify the mistakes that the other person does, but that doesn’t mean that you will keep on blaming him or her.
Both of you are no different people to be judged. It is just like the scenario where there is no judgment. Can you judge yourself? No, isn’t it? In the same way, you cannot judge the person you love.
If you are forming an opinion or being judgmental, just take a moment to see deep within you in order to find out if you are actually true to yourself. Ask yourself all over again if you love that person, for sure!
When you love someone, you do not judge that person all over again. In case you are still judging that person, it might be due to the fact that you haven’t loved him or her all over again.
Remember that you have no right to judge the other person. You might not like certain things in the other person, but that does not give you any right to turn out to be judgmental.
Just make sure that you talk to the other person regarding that matter, and try to put things back to their places.
The moment you take a pause and try joining the broken pieces all over again, things would automatically get resolved by themselves, without you putting any extra effort into the same.
Simply discuss it and try to value each other’s opinions, thereby understanding each other’s reasons on the same.