The more you are motivated by love, the more fearless and free your action will be. – Dalai Lama
Love is an extremely powerful instrument. It is so powerful that you can mould anyone to do things and at the same time, can bring back all the things into their corresponding places. However, that is the only thing that is lying within each one of us.
If you think that your child is not studying and you try to make him understand about its significance in his life, you need to treat him with love!
Often, we become so angry and agitated at things that make others oppose what we intend to say. When you try motivating your child and he doesn’t understand so, you as a person, too, fail to hold your patience for long and end up beating or scolding him.
Things would get worse if you do all these! You should understand that there could be no better motivator for someone than love. It is one of the strongest instruments and when used right, you can turn things in your own way.
If a colleague keeps shouting at you for crazy reasons, don’t give the same back to him or her. Instead, try to handle the situation calmly and be over-polite if required. Things may not fall according to your expectations on the same day but it will, with the due course of time.
While a medicine starts showing its reaction on a person on that same day, the others might take a bit more time. In the same way, when you love your kid and try making it understand something in a polite and humble manner, it is bound to get your point.
Also, when you push someone to do something, that person will either do it out of fear or just for the sake of doing. Thus, he or she will fail to give the best efforts into it.
On the contrary, if you have motivated someone with love, the action will be done in a fearless way with all his willingness put forward into it. That gives the best result for that thing.